Female condom… “to be or not to be” …

So, you playing around with the idea of using a #femalecondom — well you’ve come to the right place for some key info #discoverintimacy

Before we get started remember its normal to be slightly intimidated when trying something for the first time, especially in the bedroom. #sexualhealth education is key to the Rebr mission, and as such we’d like to point out there are no stupid questions lol, so let’s get into it…

In terms of history did you know the female condom was actually invented by a man? That’s right ladies sorry to burst your bubble, can you believe it… A Danish doctor Lasse Hessel invented it in 1984 and introduced it to the global market in 1993. His reason for the invention, a severe lack of options in preventing HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) in women. #womenshealth was obviously close to he’s heart..

So, what is a female condom? A female condom is an internal condom in contrast to a male external condom. It’s made from either a soft strong natural latex or a latex free material known as nitrile, which is suited to women who are allergic to latex. If you have ever seen or used a male condom, you’ll be familiar with the shape. The female condom is just wider to comfortably fit the shape of your vagina, facilitating easy fun movement during sex. It has a flexible outer ring at the open end, and a smaller round shaped soft ring at the closed end. The smaller ring function is to assist with inserting the condom sheath inside the vagina, so that it sits behind your pubic bone holding it in position. This snug fit against your cervix allows for natural, comfortable movement. The larger outer ring functions in holding it in place during sex. And yes, the flexible soft outer ring remains outside the vagina, helping to cover your vulva. Giving an added layer of protection, reducing the ever-present risk of very common STI’s namely herpes and the human papilloma virus (HPV).

Quick fact: Nearly all sexually active people will likely contract HPV at least once during their lives.

When used correctly the female condom’s purpose is to hold the man’s sperm after ejaculation, thereby preventing unintended pregnancies, and protecting you from sexually transmitted diseases (STD’s). But please remember no method of contraception works 100%. And if you’re unsure, always first check with your health care practitioner.

Loads of women find using a female condom to be a game changer. Why, because they are taking responsibility for their own body, ensuring they sexually protected at all times. Let’s face it, how many of us have been in a hot, steamy position with a new guy only to find out he didn’t bring a condom…

OK now what does it feel like, because we all love that “feeling”, am I right??? Luckily the female condom molds to your vagina walls, warming to body temperature for a more “natural” intimate experience. It’s worth mentioning that numerous women have commented, the inner smaller ring at the closed tip provides extra stimulation.

Let’s take a quick look at some important steps before sex to ensure a fun experience…

– Read the instructions on the packaging carefully.

– Always check to make sure your condom hasn’t expired, quick way to kill the mood!

– Then make sure you rub the outer foil evenly on both sides to spread the lube before opening.

– Next carefully tear the foil sachet at one end to open, ensuring you careful not to damage the condom.

– Now gently unwrap the condom so its fully extended, ensuring not to damage the condom if you have long nails.

– Hold the condom at the smaller closed end with 2 fingers, leaving the larger open end to hang down.

– Once you in a comfy position legs apart, then simply squeeze (not twist) the inner ring and insert into the vagina.

– Push the inner ring up and back while still squeezing, past your pubic bone, ensuring it doesn’t twist.

– Make sure the outer larger open ring stays outside to cover your labia.

– Top tip: Until you get the hang of it, maybe try holding the outer ring in place while directing the penis into your vagina.

– After sexy time, simply twist the outer ring and gently remove the condom.

– Please remember to safely discard the used condom in the bin, and not flush down the toilet.

– And never ever reuse, this is for single use only.

A popular question, can I use a lube with a female condom? Absolutely and use generously, as it may enhance sensation and give additional protection during sex. But it’s always recommended you use a water-based lube, as an oil-based lube may degrade your condom leading to potential breakage.

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In closing we trust this article has been informative and helped you decide if a female condom is for your sex life. But we would love to get some feedback from you, whether positive or negative??? We “BIG” girls her at Rebr, we can take it lol

Disclaimer: This Blog does not represent medical advice in any way, shape or form. Rebr always advises, you research a topic from multiple sources. And always contact a registered health practitioner if you have any health issues, questions or concerns.

Research sources:

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/341251249_THE_ISSUE_OF_THE_FEMALE_CONDOM