Pegging the hype, the myth… the facts

Pegging can be described as a specific type of anal sex using a strap-on dildo, where 1 person wears a strap-on to anally penetrate another person, historically described as a cisgender woman penetrating a cisgender man. This basically means their gender aligns with their biological sex given at birth i.e. a woman identifies as a woman, and a man identifies as a man. But the participants can be of any gender or sexual orientation.

Pegging was made popular during the early 2000s. The term was coined by a sex advice columnist Dan Savage, but this sex act has been around for a very long time going back to the ancient Greeks and Egyptians. The act is characterized by the strap on dildo for anal sex rather than defining the genders of the partners. Generally, the act is practiced by couples of any gender and sexuality.

The practice definitely challenges the stereotypical relationship and psychological dynamics with role reversal, domination and submission being core elements of the act. There is also a physical pleasure aspect from prostate stimulation in men, which may heighten he’s orgasm. This provides a new level of sensation and intimacy between a couple, willing to explore their boundaries and fantasies. And don’t forget its common for woman to use a strap-on with another woman for “heterosexual” vaginal sex, whether one sided, or a very fun dual penetration strap-on.

Anal sex does not only mean penetration, as the anus is full of sensitive nerve endings which may provide immense pleasure and stimulus for both partners, but that’s for another blog post..

A common myth is only gay men have anal sex. This simply isn’t true as many gay couples don’t have penetrative anal sex. And then, there are heterosexual couples who also enjoy anal sex.

Another misconception is that it’s harder to get a sexually transmitted disease from anal. This is totally untrue, and it’s just as easy to get a STI or even HIV. Unfortunately, the lining of the anus is delicate and prone to tearing creating direct contact with the bloodstream. Due to the nature of the anus, the area presents an ever-present possibility of infections from bacteria, viruses, mold and even parasites. So, it’s always a good idea to use contraception, and if changing to vaginal or oral sex from anal, always first change your condom. Or at the very least to first wash your penis, toy or strap-on dildo with warm water and soap or alternatively use an antibacterial cleaning agent.

Top tip – before you get started you might think about going for a pooh, because it can be messy and might just help if you squeamish lol You could also use a douche, which is always the best choice to ensure a more sanitary pleasurable experience.

A common question, is anal sex supposed to be painful? It’s not supposed to be painful but rather a pleasurable experience. Pain can be due to an overzealous partner, too “BIG”, too rough, too fast. It’s important to start slow and always make it consensual! Use lots of water-based lube on the anus entrance, your toy, dildo, penis or strap-on to facilitate a smooth glide transition, with no tearing or discomfort. If using a condom remember to always only use water-based lubricants to prevent breakage. And it’s important to be relaxed and aroused, so try a little foreplay first, this may ease the transition.

So you’ve decide this is something you keen to try! Cool, lets get you kitted out..

Firstly, the all-important harness strap on dildo, otherwise what’s the point… https://www.maxss.co.za/product/baile-female-harness-ultra-double-dildo-set-purple/

Secondly a water-based lube and lots of it.. https://www.maxss.co.za/product/rebr-luxure-super-lube-water-based-75ml-pump/

Then condoms to keep you sanitary.. https://www.maxss.co.za/product/playa-mixed-flavoured-coloured-latex-condoms-1s-x-12/

Throw in a vibrator for extra fun.. https://www.maxss.co.za/product/pretty-love-snappy-dual-stimulating-vibrator-purple/

And finally remember there are lots of pegging positions to try, so experiment, and find what gets your rocks off lol

Disclaimer: This Blog does not represent medical advice in any way, shape or form. Rebr always advises, you research a topic from multiple sources. And always contact a registered health practitioner if you have any health issues, questions or concerns.

Research sources:

https://factually.co/fact-checks/health/what-is-pegging-definition-safety-and-consent-4c5bcd